Do you ever feel sorry for your lover’s ex?
I know they are happily divorced but I feel like I got the greater/better/awesome half. I am always hoping wishing that she has found the right person for herself.
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SwampFlower · 31-35, F
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Mindful · 56-60, F
@SwampFlower that’s awesome. No. They don’t talk. She went bananas calling cops on him AND the kids, she got physical at times. He was overwhelmed. They couldn’t speak at all. It was a confusing time for every one. It was before I met him too. He asked her to see a doctor. But she would have none of that. I think few people have the skill to cope with borderline mental illness. I often wish I could intervene but it isn’t time yet. I definitely am intimidated by his fear of her. When they traded kids it was always in public and several cars apart. So that she wouldn’t be able to grab his car door or keep him from leaving.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@SwampFlower yes. That’s what I tell myself. Thanks for sharing your POV too.
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
My lovers exes decided it would be a great idea in her college days to essentially use one of the big buildings in college to hold her down and gang rape her after she in essence couldn't handle monogamy and cheated on them all.
eventually they all found each other and commited major crimes to "punish her" and frankly if I only could I'd AR15 them all dead.
I don't feel sorry for them. I might have considering how amazing she is if they hadn't of decided rape was an accceptable punishment for inifdelity. I hope no woman is ever faithful to any of them ever again.
We fit together because monogamy is not as easy as people act, I'm lucky she had friends to help her escape that got worried and found her and helped her fight her way out.
I litterally hate everyone who ever hurt her. she's quite the catch but I mean nobody can really have her to themselves. but yeah many a times has trackin them down and ritualisitically tormenting them crosssed my mind.
love and hate sometimes feed off each other. I'm against infidelity but in essence no one gets lynched for it on my watch and not in my name.
eventually they all found each other and commited major crimes to "punish her" and frankly if I only could I'd AR15 them all dead.
I don't feel sorry for them. I might have considering how amazing she is if they hadn't of decided rape was an accceptable punishment for inifdelity. I hope no woman is ever faithful to any of them ever again.
We fit together because monogamy is not as easy as people act, I'm lucky she had friends to help her escape that got worried and found her and helped her fight her way out.
I litterally hate everyone who ever hurt her. she's quite the catch but I mean nobody can really have her to themselves. but yeah many a times has trackin them down and ritualisitically tormenting them crosssed my mind.
love and hate sometimes feed off each other. I'm against infidelity but in essence no one gets lynched for it on my watch and not in my name.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@BetweenKittensandRiots oh my that’s a completely utterly horrible list of “exes” it’s the sort of dreadful life experience that’s beyond comprehension. I understand your hatred. I find human behavior like that twisted beyond bizarre. I hope that people around them get the courage to stand up and put them on trial. Sick sick humans.
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
@Mindful Oh yes, I mean I understand the response to being cheated on is highly individual but in my case depending on how in love I was I might even try to make it work....
or simply dump her if our agreement was monogamous. These guys took the trashing his apartment with glitter bombs and slashign his tires to the next level crazy.
or simply dump her if our agreement was monogamous. These guys took the trashing his apartment with glitter bombs and slashign his tires to the next level crazy.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@BetweenKittensandRiots that’s sick. Talk about being better off without someone. So glad she got away!!!!!
SapphicHeart · F
No. Thats weird.
bijouxbroussard · F
