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Who was your first?

i have a friend that married her hs sweetheart, it was like they knew the day they met that they would be together forever. they both had never dated anyone else and are still madly in love. I for one am glad i didn't end up with my first, nothing against him...

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SW-User

I was 18.
Horrible experience
Sure as hell glad I didn’t end up with her

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SW-User

@SW-User ah. Understandable
Especially if he’s overly assertive and ready.. and not patient

SW-User

@SW-User yup

Savagesix · 41-45, M

@SW-User oh it definitely was for me. She had a way different experience, she tolerated the pain out of infatuation she had for me. Great friends 30 years later. I was 13 and she was 12. She gave it to me when ever I wanted til her fam moved to Cali 2 or 3 years later

elafina · 36-40, F

well i was totally drunk and wasted the first few times so 🙄 i was one of those who "got over with it" and moved on. i stayed with the guy for a year and a half more but I would have preferred to at least be able and remember it ..

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elafina · 36-40, F

@SW-User yes exactly, always first times are for enjoying but also for learning too <3

SW-User

@elafina mine was certainly a learning experience lol, but glad it was over then and we didn't try to continue on

elafina · 36-40, F

@SW-User what happened?

zerofuks2give · 41-45, M

I married my first, we are still together 😊

SW-User

@zerofuks2give that's unusual, cool :)

zerofuks2give · 41-45, M

@SW-User thanks. She wasn’t my last tho 😏😃

SW-User

@zerofuks2give lmao 🤣

spearot32 · 36-40, T

I don't think I've thought about him since college. The memory is a little fuzzy now, but I remember he had really dark brown hair, and the brightest blue eyes I have ever seen, still to this day really. I may have to look him up on FB and see what happened to him.

SW-User

@spearot32 you should :)

SW-User

That was my situation. My first was at 18, in the college dorms. She and I have been together ever since, now we're married and have a kid together. Neither of us have ever been with anyone else and it doesn't seem to matter. :)

SW-User

@SW-User that is amazing, it's like for some people that just works. congratulations :)

DomMan67 · 56-60, M

I am so lucky I didn't end up with my first or second for that matter. We couldn't have been more opposite but there was immense chemistry so there were breakups and reconnects ad nauseum. The very first time sexually ever was honestly a bit of a disappointment to me though but it improved immensely from there. 😂 No way it could have worked and of course looking back and seeing their paths made it crystal clear I was infinitely better off without either of them.

SW-User

@DomMan67 thank you for sharing :)

DomMan67 · 56-60, M

@SW-User You are quite welcome.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

a guy i dated in college, shld have broken up with him sooner, there were a lot of red flags which i ignored or didn't have the confidence to...

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BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@SW-User I know everyone is different & I feel everyone shld do what is right for them esp when it comes to sex but I personally am glad I list my virginity b4 I got married, got some experience & i know what I like & don't like & what I will compromise on...

SW-User

@BondGirl84 i agree with that

SomeMichGuy · M

@BondGirl84 ...he broke up with you because you didn't want him to think of you as an underaged, illegal conquest...?

Ass.

Hotelroom38 · 51-55, M

oh I am with you on that one.... with my first my life would of been very different lol

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Hotelroom38 · 51-55, M

@SW-User ahhh what was the difference if I am may ask

SW-User

@Hotelroom38 👾

Hotelroom38 · 51-55, M

@SW-User understood :)

Frankie13 · 46-50, M

I married my first. Together since I was 14 up until 42. Then she left one day and moved in with my brother and is now fukin him. I wish I could turn back time because I would never ever have even dated her let alone marry her.