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I Am Frustrated

I cannot stand my sister's dad. Thank goodness people are catching onto his bullshit. He takes advantage of everyone.
When I was in Highschool he took my other sisters (I have 2) scholarship money and when I basically told him off and got in an argument witj him I was the one "over reacting". When he got kicked out cause he didn't have a bloody job and was like 5000 behind on his dent and got kicked out everyone took pity on him and got him a little unit.
He then illegally sub-leased that unit to some randoms for more money than he pays on rent and started living witj his then gf who was a bloody ice addict. Them people then stayed there when he broke up with that girlfriend and wanted to move back into that unit, I don't get squatting laws but they were allowed to stay there temporally because of them, and he lost his unit and got cut of AGAIN from government assistant payments cause he refused to go to his damn appointments when he was about 10 minute walk away from it.
He now has no money or house, he lives on MY NANS couch, not looking for a job or anything. My Nan isn't even related to him cause its through me and my siblings mum. He also goes to my mum's house every second day to see my little sister, which I don't care about, but each time he's there he gets money off her, she has a 6 month year old she needs to support instead. Every single time sister gives him money and he blows it on cigetrettes and marijuana. Everyone except my little sister at this point is so sick of him using everyone but they still let him do this shit. They never tell him off or kick him out. Maybe he needs to actually be homeless to understand his own situation tbh.
I had to rant about it Cause I've come over to my mum's to help my sister take care of her son, cause she's 19, he's 6 months she just not okay with doing it herself and my mum's gone away with her boyfriend for the night and guess who comes over!!!!!!!! Annoyed as hell.
Told him he can't stay the night, he then "misses" the last bus. I tell him he still can't stay but then he goes "But it's raining and windy" then my sister chimes in with "he can sleep on the floor in my room."
I CANNOT DEAL UGH
Sorry had to rant about it Cause it's actually pissed me right off. Also Not looking for opinions on this matter cause I know he's a using bastard. 馃檪馃檪
updown202061-69, M
Wow well sorry but he does what he does because people feel sorry for him and helps him out people need to stop helping him out and let him fend for him self. How do people let him take there school money and what they do not go to school because he took there money? when people apply for school the y need to keep it to themselves and tell no one if it does get out well they have to give him the money so do not. Yes I make it sound easy and I am sure he has his ways to get into peoples head so the give in just to shut him up and to get rid of him But it's their future they have to think about to and the have to feed there family.
SeductiveCactus26-30, F
@updown2020 I 100% agree there, well I got confused in the middle but I understand what you mean. He's gotten used to everyone helping him out and he's taking advantage of it. It doesn't help when I'm the only one who calls him out on it either. Bloody ridiculous and frustrating. I understand my sister who's his daughter acting forgiving towards him cause she's always been a bit naive and ditsy, but still, even she has a job to support her son. She shouldn't be supporting his bad habits but she's just bias as hell. I can't do anything except telling people to actually stop with the shit and telling him off while I'm at it. He thinks I'm overreacting and emotional but I don't care, it needs to get through his thick skull.
Ugh sorry another short rant haha.
updown202061-69, M
@SeductiveCactus It really does not matter daughter or no daughter she has her own bills to pay and then the need food and do not have because she gave it to her father well maybe she will begin to understand .
quitwhendoneM
Somebody needs to adjust his karma.

 
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