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Should I be friends with this person?

So there's this guy who's [i]super[/i] Hindu I met at work. He's friendly but there's something I feel weird about him. He's really [i]Hindu[/i]. He extremely hates Muslims and scoffs at Christians. I had another Hindu friend who converted to Muslim and this dude keeps telling my friend is mad to be muslim and constantly asks me what made my Hindu ancestors to accept Christianity and drops his remarks that he finds it funny Hindu converting to another religion but at the same time, gloats over white people choosing Hinduism. Would you be friends with him?
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I mean I guess I would be friends with them, but not if that’s all they ever talk about. That’d get annoying.
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
The true Hindu would accept both Muslim and Christian.
Haters always going to hate
If he couldn’t stay neutral about his feeling towards religion then no.. people should respect each other’s religion and be able to be friends without prejudice
Sounds like they're kinda negative. If they not normally like that, I'd be friends with them. If they are... I'd stay associates Haha
darshak89 · 31-35, M
Religion is not creating berries bitwin friendship. Bcz friendships depends on bond of heart. It's not religious connection. If he have good bonding with you, he respect you Always he can take stand for you, then definitely you can do it. If your bonding are proper then you will able to solve religious differences very easily..
JBird · F
@darshak89 but he definitely don't respect my choices or even my family's
darshak89 · 31-35, M
@JBird if he can't understand you and your family then how could he been your friend?
I don't want to saying any parsonaly because I don't have any information about your parsonal bond..
darshak89 · 31-35, M
I don't understand why people creating religious barriers between friendship, I have so many others religion 's friends but we never had any problems about each other's religion..
Thanos · 31-35, M
Ah a typical Indian guy singing praises of his religion and meanwhile not following what his religion's basic ideology 😅 tell him your ancestors converted cause morons didn't let them inside their place of worship 🙄 caste system was and still is the primary reason why so many Hindus choose to convert. I can't take such person seriously everything
JBird · F
@Thanos Frankly I don't know why my ancestors chose Christianity. I checked my family tree and they were rich and either high casted Brahmins or Nairs. So I understand poverty nor caste discrimination was not the reason for conversion. Maybe they actually liked the religion. There are even other Hindus with my family name around. It's a mystery actually
Thanos · 31-35, M
@JBird it doesn't really matter it's their choice they're allowed to worship whoever they want it's nobody's business. Back when I was a believer I considered converting to Christianity too cause their community was strong they help those in need. This church I used to visit helped my family many times and I wasn't even one of them details are personal to share publicly but none of the temples I visited when these temples are rich af 🙄
NickiHijab · F
I'd avoid him. Sounds annoying and overbearing.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
No, he sounds prejudiced and annoying. And he is intolerant of your family's choices and your beliefs. Definitely not a friend.
You should have. I think some degree of honesty is okay. @JBird
JBird · F
@Spoiledbrat but he's not honest actually. He have no fear to say anything even if that doesn't have any evidence to it and changes his opinions when they seem valueless. Some of the things he's saying are part of this anti muslim agenda. Also he supports violence against them. He has no idea how Christianity but he thinks he knows all about my ancestry and the overall demographics. When something happens, he blamed it on Muslims and believes that it would be great if everyone chose Hinduism while rejecting facts that points his opinions are wrong.
You don’t have to talk to him if it bothers you. @JBird
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
I personally couldn't stand someone like that, it's like he sees religion over people and it's sad. I assume even if you try being his friend he will just think of you as inferior because of it.
They don't sound very open-minded or like someone who would be a reliable friend. I find anyone with an attitude like that not worth the trouble.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
Nope. Don't have energy to deal with toxic people. This guy sounds super bitter in general. I bet he loves to complain about the texture of mayonnaise too
Viper01 · 31-35, M
Doesn't he have anything else to talk about? I couldn't handle it if that's all he went on about
I don’t have hang ups about religion so unless he was just rude I would.
Heck no! I'd stay away from someone with that many issues.
No...he is an arrogant piece of shit!
MrAboo · 36-40, M
Just based on this probably not. I’m no fan of gloating over a religious preference, but I’d agree with your friend that Islam is a bad religion.
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Thanos · 31-35, M
@mad205039 I've seen Indians praising USA over delivering justice to Hindu victims while mocking those who speak of rights of minorities in India 🙄 it's majority of Indians right now

 
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