I know that in my line of work, I'll face alot of loss but to know without a doubt one of them is literally dying breaks my heart.

They say don't get attached but that's impossible. To care for them, you have to care about them so how do you draw the line??
My new client is 83 and has bone cancer. There's no coming back from that.

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

Miram · 31-35, F

The not getting attached to your patients advice is bullshit.

Not only it isn't realistic, it is counter-productive. You will end up dehumanizing yourself and the process by completely switching off feelings.

Feel, love, care, bond, grieve and accept. It does get more natural as you go through it knowingly and look at sadness as a normal part of existence just like happiness.

I am sorry you're losing a loved one.

Tumbleweed · F

@Miram 🫂Thank you

Miram · 31-35, F

@Tumbleweed You know where to find me if you ever need to vent 🤍 You're doing your best and that's what matters

Tumbleweed · F

@Miram You are truly a beautiful soul.