Also, do you ever talk to someone and then half the conversation realize it is an absolute waste of time?
They don't really listen unless it is something entertaining or makes them feel superior and right somehow.
That passing discomfort in their facial features when you step into a situation which needs to get fixed. Requires collective responsibility and bit of sacrifice.
I now just abandon the conversation as soon as I see the cognitive dissonance taking shape. Before even finishing the sentence, I take one look and get the eff out. Specifically with people that have a behavioral pattern of avoidance and apathy. I don't want to pretend that you care while you pretend to listen.