Go to work and do your job
Because when you think that a coworker might be a friend, they're just a coworker, not really a friend
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hartfire · 61-69
]'ve never expected any coworker to become a friend,
but if they show an interest, I've usually been willing to reciprocate in kind.
I don't begin to count it as something real until we've spent many occasions over coffee, meals and other activities outside the work environment - we've really come to know each other and appreciated the developing depth of connection. I have three now, two of whom go back 30 - 40 years. It takes time, effort, commitment and genuine liking and sharing of values and interests.
but if they show an interest, I've usually been willing to reciprocate in kind.
I don't begin to count it as something real until we've spent many occasions over coffee, meals and other activities outside the work environment - we've really come to know each other and appreciated the developing depth of connection. I have three now, two of whom go back 30 - 40 years. It takes time, effort, commitment and genuine liking and sharing of values and interests.