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So I work a job with 90% women

And I like it there. Im on super good terms with all the management and owners etc. I notice that everyone's pretty much best friends talking all day but when it's me there's this very obvious space between me and everyone else. Interactions are mostly very..not forced but I know it's different.

Like I know I'm not "one of the gang". I don't really mind as I'm usually so busy, but it kinda sucks 馃槵
The older women I chat to a lot and there's no weirdness, it's mostly the younger ones.

Makes me feel like a creep or something 馃槓 and I'm not. I feel old 馃槀 and I'm not. Though I am the only guy and I have a beard and I'm covered in tattoos so 馃し馃槀

Probably nothing, but there's definitely a dynamic that's different than other jobs where it was more 50/50. I am on friendly terms with everyone generally speaking. Guess it's my first time experiencing it 馃し

Just wanted to throw this thought out into the wind *sheeuuuum*
Creep shamed is just part of our life, its whatever. Once I was at a bar and moved my coat for some woman to sit down since she was trying to sit at a full bar and she looked at me like I was some kind of creep like as if to say, "as if I WOULD EVER want to sit next to you". That is what I get for trying to be polite in public.
Mordechai31-35, M
@orioninthenight I know that sucks. It feels almost insulting sometimes having to go the extra mile to not be seen as a horrible person.

I've learned to not take it personally, I've had women walk faster at night if I'm down the street behind them but I just cross the road to make em feel better. Nearly if not all of them have had at least one or many horrible experiences.

It's not like that at all in work, I am trusted 馃
Sazzio31-35, M
I work where about 90% are Polish! When they speak Polish I sorta feel left out.

But yeah definitely on good terms with everyone. It's just break times. Am left on my own all other times as an a Machine Operator.
Mordechai31-35, M
@Sazzio At least it's not just me 馃槀

 
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