Let’s chat about the work wife and work hubby? Y’all cool with your significant other having one?

Saucylover · 26-30, F

Honestly, I am. I used to tell my ex about my work bae all the time lol. He would tell me about his as well. It was platonic. Yeah, there was a little light flirting here and there. But it never went any further than that. We both knew where home was. I think having a work bae allows you to enjoy the job a bit more in my opinion. I know a lot may not agree with this, but I think it's healthy.

While I do prefer monogamy, I actually don't mind my partner flirting or accepting flirty conversations every now and then. We used to go to the club and pretend we didn't know each other lol. We would chat with people, flirt, and just have fun. Then we would find our way to each other at the bar and act like strangers. It was a way to keep our relationship light, fun, and fresh.

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Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M

@Saucylover I don’t have that view in an open relationship and I don’t even think about it really. Because we are all sharing with each other in this world we just choose who we want to share with.😏

That’s my view of an open relationship / non monogamous

Saucylover · 26-30, F

@Heavenlywarrior That is completely understandable. It doesn't feel natural to a lot of people, and I get it. I like a bit of fluidity in my relationship lol. Maybe I should head to the other side. I might like something open. I've told my partner (current/previous) that I am open to sleeping with someone else in the future if that's something we both want to do.

I personally don't look at sleeping with others while in a committed relationship as a deal breaker. It's the dishonesty that I don't like. I can appreciate a man that is upfront about his need to satisfy himself with other women.