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I really can't stand my boss 😒

When I first got this job, I thought he was pretty nice, but the longer I work there, the more I see him for what he really is. He's a creepy little pervert who makes all of his employees feel uncomfortable. He's the ONLY male in the place and he likes it that way.

He owns the company so there's no one to report him to. He doesn't inappropriately touch anyone (that I know of), but he is always making inappropriate jokes and telling crazy stories from his own past that always just happen to have some sort of weird sexual ending. 🙄 Definitely not appropriate for a workplace.

Also, we have been asking him to hire a male or a really strong woman to help us with deliveries and warehouse duties (all the women I work with are petite and even though I am not petite, I have a bad back), and he has told us for weeks that he is looking for someone who fits the description. Well, I recommended my boyfriend for the job since he's tall, muscular, and has lots of delivery and warehouse experience. My boss was extremely interested in hiring my bf, had zero problems with the fact that he was my bf and would be working with me, and by the following week, he had hired him.

It was great at first! My bf fit in, and was getting all the work done that we had been previously struggling with. He was even being trained to do the deliveries. Then, out of nowhere, 3 days into his work week, my bf was let go for apparently "unsafe driving"?????? WTF

First of all, his driving record is clean, and he has worked for both Amazon and the U.S. Post Office, so he is certainly a safe, qualified driver. Secondly, my boss wasn't even IN TOWN when this apparent "unsafe driving" took place, so how does he even KNOW how my bf drives??? Also- why was my bf fired after 3 days with no warning or write-up or anything?? That is extremely unprofessional and suspicious.

I suspect that my bf was fired because my short little Napoleon-complex boss felt threatened by having a big strong male in the workplace with all his "girls" (I should note that my boss has a huge crush on one of my coworkers in particular, and she happens to be the one who was training my bf on deliveries). I truly think my boss wants only females working for him, due to some sick fantasy he has. 🤢

I plan to leave this job as soon as I find something that pays about the same. I don't even like looking at my boss anymore. 😒 Even my coworkers can't understand why my bf was fired, they all liked him a lot and he was a hard worker. This is the downside of working for an independent small business- the owner has the final word and there is no HR or union rep to protect workers from unjust firings!!!😡
That is just sad....

I hope your BF finds something quick and doesn't resent that he was let go from your workplace after you recommended him.

My (free) advice: Be careful and keep looking for a better job.

Other than that all I can say is that I just advised my cousin that he shouldn't take a job working at the same place his wife is working because if the company goes belly up (and it is on life support now) they both will be out of work at the same time.
romell · 51-55, M
Its not like if he's the proprietor he can do what he likes their surely would be government agencies who can be reported to for his misconduct....indirect or unsolicited sexual laced jokes are not done
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
I think everyone who works for the company, all the woman, are unsafe drivers… which could be shown to him in the parking lot as he is leaving one day. I sure hate workplace accidents… 🤔😂
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Recruit SW to post hundreds of bad reviews for his business. Make sure the biggest complaint was how creepy he was. Yet have them all say the employees are wonderful.

🤪
What sort of fantasies your boss have?
SW-User
Get some legal advice on this and report him anonymously.

Sorry you’re in such a awkward spot rn, hope it turns out better for you all.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User report him to who? He owns the company.
SW-User
Does he have a website for this company ?

If so leave bad reviews anonymously

He sounds like a total pleb @DearAmbellina2113
Zonuss · 41-45, M
You should document his behavior and get some witnesses. If he's the only man there he doesn't stand a chance.🙂
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Zonuss even if he owns the company?? Who would I even report him to??
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@DearAmbellina2113 EEOC.
Or you can film a claim to the Authorities if there is sexual misconduct.
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@bleach sorry
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