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Why am I ignored at work? Is it because I’m too nice? Or autistic?

I mean I am doing my best to work with the children and being more careful but I feel like I’m not appreciated and ignored. Like I do like my job so far, but when I make suggestions I’m often ignored or someone just nodded their heads but the others is listened. I think the other staff isn’t doing much to help at all. Is this the three of us that are doing most of the work but I think she’s doing a lot better since someone talk to her about it. She seems quite and reserved. She doesn’t really interact me that much but she does with the other two. I don’t know if she’s uncomfortable with me or what. I’m ignored when I say hi but they say hi to the kids. I understand the kids are more important and they need more car attention, but it hurts. When I told that co-worker I was going to the restroom, she didn’t respond to me and ignored me so I told the teacher she nodded. At least she responded. What is wrong with people? I’m trying my best to be nice and friendly. I’m used to being dislikes but come on! It’s like one of the co workers from my old job wasn’t too fond of me either. She barely responds when I am friendly. I started my new job July 26 and students started school August 3rd.
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PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
Maybe it’s because that girl is trying to do her job and you’re annoying the hell out of her! So stop that shit! See that’s what’s wrong with you, you expect people to have the same heart as you and you know damn well they won’t. She probably doesn’t like you and I don’t blame her. She probably have seen or sense something about you that she doesn’t like and is she staying far away from you. Stop using your autism as an excuse! You’re not gonna pull that free pass card on anybody in the real world and jobs don’t really give a shit if you have a disability. You’re supposed to do your job and do what you’re supposed to be doing and stop making fucking excuses and whining. You’re probably just being a kiss ass and nobody wants to be around someone like that! Get used to it! Not everyone is going to like or respect you. It’s part of being an adult. You grow up and accept that fact. She doesn’t like you and she doesn’t have to! God you’re annoying!