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Do you feel that work is overtaking your life?

When we were children, we spend most of our days in school. Then we grew into adults and now we spend most of our days working.

What is wrong with society?
Yet they encourage us to live. Am I the only one thinking something is wrong here?
Yulianna · 22-25, F
as my work is now war, yes, it is taking over my life... though i will endeavour to ensure that it doesn't take my life.
Yulianna · 22-25, F
@Casheyane @TheSirfurryanimalWales 🇺🇦🌻🇺🇦 thank you both 🤗🤗
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@Yulianna Walk Softly and Carry a Big Gun

Yulianna · 22-25, F
@KiwiBird 🇺🇦🌻🇺🇦
ABCDEF7 · M
Life is not just the moments that we plan with our dear ones. Life is the every moment that we live daily. We have to learn to live and enjoy the every moment of our life. Work or education is the necessity of the life, not the life itself.
4meAndyou · F
In days of yore, we would have spent most of our days, as children, working our little fingers to the bone.

Such was the case during the industrial revolution in England, and such was the case for children in India and, indeed, all over the world.

Farm children had to work. Pure and simple.

When free schooling was first offered to children in the United States, many children could only stay in school long enough to learn their letters so they could read the bible, and sign their names, and then had to leave to help out at home, babysitting the younger children, helping on the farm, or sewing and weaving to make money..

There's a reason why Moses handed down one of the commandments to rest on the seventh day...because people in the old days would NEVER have rested otherwise.

What is happening NOW is that children are receiving free schooling and they are REQUIRED to stay in school. If they don't, they and their parents are punished.

I believe an unintended consequence of such lengthy schooling was to cause children to be spoiled.

I remember being shocked when I first learned that after school was done, I would have to work to support and feed myself, and that work would be harder and LONGER than school.

It's true that there is not much time left over to "live", or stop and smell the roses...but we have a HELL of a lot more time, money, and energy left over to do so than our ancestors ever did.
I spent much of my adult life in school too....
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@Yulianna @TheSirfurryanimalWales
yeah...well, it was good for the cricket 😀.
Ha. The career choice motivation laid bare.
@Abstraction well,yeah😀
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@TheSirfurryanimalWales I taught for 2 years. So until then, school, uni, teaching... Then I got a job with only 4 weeks annual leave. I freaked out. What?!?!??!?
Abstraction · 61-69, M
I started to think that about school and work before me when I was in Year 11.
In the end I had to find work that meant something to me - because it is so much of our life.
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@Abstraction When did you stop? How much promotion is enough? It's like chasing something that only gets higher. You start to want more and more. You fight tooth and nail to get there. You work hard. But then you end up drained at some point. So you need to decide if recharge would have to do or maybe a hundred eighty degrees change.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@Casheyane I work in overseas aid. I don't aim for promotion because I find organisational politics and people with MBAs completely boring. I focus on influencing real change in people's lives in communities. That really matters. So... I love what I do.
But unlike many colleagues, I don't work weekends (unless I'm travelling). I'm not a slave to my phone. I don't check emails when I'm on holiday. It's just work. I have other things in my life. I have family, hobbies and things.
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Every era will show it’s colours. So just flow with the time and enjoy every single moment. I know every moment can’t be enjoyed the way we desire, but at least we can try.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
We got confused between living and owning...
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@Yulianna keep ones chin higher than the water....
Yulianna · 22-25, F
@ozgirl512 😂😂😂 swim on your back and never get out of your depth... how boring would that be! 🤗
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@Yulianna sounds bloody safe though😜
bookerdana · M
My Dad worked a 40 hour week (plus commutation time and raised a Family comfortably.

To do the same today a couple would booth have to work and maybe have a side hustle.

We've been bamboozled...
SolGryn · 31-35, M
Most people have never truly lived at all
Many of us feel like that
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
Absolutely
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Casheyane · 31-35, F
@CestManan It is becoming more and more obvious, yeah.

 
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