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how would you deal with a saboteur at work?

i was hired into a new job. next year i'm transitioning into a managing position. the fellow who is currently in that role is supposed to be training me. we were friends, he actually helped get me hired. now that i'm here, i get the feeling that he's doing some underhanded sabotaging. he leaves me off important emails, he doesn't let me know about meetings until the last minute. i asked to meet with him to go over job details, when i first moved to town and he kept blowing me off for weeks before we finally met.

what do you do in that situation? the funny thing is i don't even care for the position, but it's not something i can't really get out of.
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SW-User
I've had situations at work before where both colleagues and bosses played games like that. The thing to do is to keep a diary and make notes on all your interactions with them, particularly anything verbal. Then if later it comes back to bite you, you'll have a pattern of behaviour that you can refer to.
blindbob · 41-45
@SW-User thank you for that tip. he's being slick about it.