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Mindful · 56-60, F
I have a ridiculously positive attitude. It makes me a mark for negative nancy’s.
They’re mostly all gone, and I’m still there. Another positive person joined the team and told a lot of people the things I do behind the scenes and DONT brag about. She only found out because we worked together closely. She helped turned things around for me at work.
My work ethic: work with integrity and out last the boss and anyone else that tries to take you down.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s very challenging. Some people are mean and they’re waaaay off. Some bosses are abusive and want to make you quit. Bosses come and go. I wish them well as long as they aren’t serial killers. Meditation keeps me grounded. I can only hope and pray it will continue to do so. But yes I’ve witnessed many tears of others. I’ve shed a few myself. Then I just say, I’m going to do an even better job at work.
Oh so a serious an example what I suffered: my boss picked up something I had created, passed it around, said “I don’t know who created this, then called it a shitty work and that she never wanted to see another thing like it.” Naturally I defended my work. She did t like me much after that. She had me audited like 12 times. She ended up having to audit a to. Of other people to save her ass from mistreating others unfairly. Now she audits constantly, whee as hardly did before. Lol. We still work together. But she lost my trust. Because she listened to a Negative Nancy.
They’re mostly all gone, and I’m still there. Another positive person joined the team and told a lot of people the things I do behind the scenes and DONT brag about. She only found out because we worked together closely. She helped turned things around for me at work.
My work ethic: work with integrity and out last the boss and anyone else that tries to take you down.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s very challenging. Some people are mean and they’re waaaay off. Some bosses are abusive and want to make you quit. Bosses come and go. I wish them well as long as they aren’t serial killers. Meditation keeps me grounded. I can only hope and pray it will continue to do so. But yes I’ve witnessed many tears of others. I’ve shed a few myself. Then I just say, I’m going to do an even better job at work.
Oh so a serious an example what I suffered: my boss picked up something I had created, passed it around, said “I don’t know who created this, then called it a shitty work and that she never wanted to see another thing like it.” Naturally I defended my work. She did t like me much after that. She had me audited like 12 times. She ended up having to audit a to. Of other people to save her ass from mistreating others unfairly. Now she audits constantly, whee as hardly did before. Lol. We still work together. But she lost my trust. Because she listened to a Negative Nancy.
MatthewTheHamster · 31-35, M
@Mindful I really enjoyed what i am doing, but constantly getting last minute request.
Changes at the very last minute. It really wear me out.
Till the point i doubt my passion.
Changes at the very last minute. It really wear me out.
Till the point i doubt my passion.