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SW-User
Huh? They missed inviting him? That sounds like bullying tbh
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SW-User
It sounds fking awful.god knows what else he’s putting up with. If I were him I’d resign and go for constructive dismissal @SevenTierCrazyCake
@SW-User @SW-User No! I need him here. I can’t do three peoples jobs. I’m already literally doing two.
SW-User
Get a new job luv xx@SevenTierCrazyCake
SW-User
That is appalling management.
However for you... go...
But I'd offer to take him out for a celebration of his help to me out of the sight of management.
Thirdly. I'd look for another job if that is how they treat people. Today him tomorrow you?
However for you... go...
But I'd offer to take him out for a celebration of his help to me out of the sight of management.
Thirdly. I'd look for another job if that is how they treat people. Today him tomorrow you?
@SW-User I’m only still here because it’s part of a very specific five year plan. I know what’s happening. & am lucky enough to be out of the thrall most of the time. I am the only person here (luckily for me) who knows how to do my job. So, they need me. It could take them up six months to get a replacement. So, they leave me alone & they place nice.
SW-User
@SevenTierCrazyCake watch your back sounds very toxic environment. My experience of them is they are also very volatile as well. I'd keep an escape/insurance plan in place.
@SW-User already set
SW-User
You should decide whether you care about being fair or being a winner.
Not that it has to be one or the other. Sounds like a childish situation. Isolation isn’t right, especially when the person has helped you.
Not that it has to be one or the other. Sounds like a childish situation. Isolation isn’t right, especially when the person has helped you.
@SW-User I cant. It’s not a party, it’s a dinner party
SW-User
@SevenTierCrazyCake, have you tried asking someone why he wasn’t included? Making a point to announce that it’s made you uncomfortable?
@SW-User apparently it’s for people who went above & beyond. Somehow him work till 1am every day for months doesn’t count.
The big bosses just don’t like him
The big bosses just don’t like him
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
What a shitty thing to do, really. Personally I probably wouldn’t go. Who wants to rub elbows with people like that?
And I’d be looking for another job.
And I’d be looking for another job.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
@SevenTierCrazyCake lol. Maybe you should just bring him with you, going on the assumption everyone had been invited.
@HeavenBesideYou interesting idea.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
GLITTER · 36-40, F
Sounds like my life right now. I’m so that guy 😂
SW-User
I'd look for a new job. I don't like the sound of your managers.
@SW-User not mine either. I think. I’ve never been to one. I do however have no choice.
SW-User
@SevenTierCrazyCake Sounds fun 😐
@SW-User yay
approachingmyexpirationdate · 61-69, M
consider working somewhere else
if they did it to him, they could just as easily do it to you
if they did it to him, they could just as easily do it to you
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Unless you're dating. Go to the party. But know you are the one with a gold heart.
@ScarletWitch I’ve no choice anyway. I have to go.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
I would not be attending as I refuse to dress up for anyone
@nedkelly that’s fair. But I’m sa touch girly so the dressing up isn’t an issue for me.
He can be your plus one
@DarlingSelah unfortunately not. It’s a sit down, four course, Black tie dinner for twenty-two people. All the big wigs... & then me. 😬
InOtterWords · F
What a crap thing to do.
I would talk to the guy, tell him that you are caught between supporting him and the need to balance your own career.
I would also say, however,to the top management that this is exluding a colleague and is not right and it is not in the spirirt of the company/teamwork/christmas etc.
Idk
I would talk to the guy, tell him that you are caught between supporting him and the need to balance your own career.
I would also say, however,to the top management that this is exluding a colleague and is not right and it is not in the spirirt of the company/teamwork/christmas etc.
Idk
@InOtterWords good advice.
We’ve all argreed to leave it a little while in the hope an invite turns up. I certainly don’t want to tell him on a Friday anyway. He’ll stew about it all weekend.
We’ve all argreed to leave it a little while in the hope an invite turns up. I certainly don’t want to tell him on a Friday anyway. He’ll stew about it all weekend.