A coworker doesn't like me. She points out all my faults. And the mistakes I do make she blows them out of portion. Gossips about me. What can I Do?

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I deal with a lady like this at my work, in fact a coworker and I were talking about how rude and just plain short she iscwith me... I told him I really don’t care, if she wants to act like that so be it. I can’t concern my self with people who want to make situations miserable. I have better things to do with my time. Now I keep it 100% professional, if she gives me attitude I just say what I need to say to perform the job and I walk away. In the end, she is the single miserable person who acts like that, she isn’t bringing me down with her.

Vin66 · 36-40, F

@Tryingtofindabalance I went through the same situation as you! What I discovered about my coworker is that she is someone who has a hard time finding love in her life...men don’t find her attractive...so this caused her to be really bitter and moody at work...like you I simply ignore her and don’t bother with her negativity!!!!!

Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M

@Vin66 it was a bummer at first, but now it makes no difference to me. I have the benefit of getting out of the office to visit clients whenever I want, so that helps too