I can't read people sometimes and need an answer

We are bunch of colleagues at work and all are of same cadre, we had arguments and separated into teams. 5 people on one side and my close colleague and I on opposing end. Whenever even there is a minute conflict, those people would come at me and argue with me, belittle me and sometimes even mock me but not my colleague. Do they respect her / afraid of her/ or look at me as ridiculous because almost everyone of them argue with me and gang up on me all the time

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SomeMichGuy · M

No idea, but I think your action item is to stop them and say

1) Why are you all attacking me in a gang?

2) We are colleagues, not enemies. Treat me like a colleague.

3) You are making a confrontational workplace.

GermanAf · 26-30, M

Perhaps they feel like you can't fight back. You do not have to be right, you just need to make sure the others won't talk back.

Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F

@GermanAf thankyou, i get what you are saying

1490wayb · 56-60, M

time to move on i think...very poor management it sounds like

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1490wayb · 56-60, M

@Tellmeaboutyourself try look forward and focus on future rather than past

Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F

@1490wayb thankyou 😁😄

1490wayb · 56-60, M

@Tellmeaboutyourself the front windshield in your car is far bigger than rearview mirror hahahaha😂

Yourwildestdreams · M

They see it as a weakness in you. There bully sharks 🦈.
Stand up and stand your ground with confidence .

Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F

@Yourwildestdreams thanks a lot 😁

Yourwildestdreams · M

@Tellmeaboutyourself welcome 🤗

Mudkip · 31-35, M

They seem like they dont like you

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Mudkip · 31-35, M

@Tellmeaboutyourself of course, you can't let anyone just walk all over you. That's what I tell one of my coworkers because he isn't as vocal as I am. There's being nice, but it can get you nowhere. Nothing wrong with being assertive in matters that need attention.

Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F

@Mudkip Being nice has led to people think im being a pushover and exploited me. Same as you get what you tolerate. So there's no point in being nice anymore

Mudkip · 31-35, M

@Tellmeaboutyourself in your case, no. Being nice isn't an option. There's constructive criticism, but belittling you is something else. You shouldn't take it from them.

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in10RjFox · M

Maybe you are beautiful.. so they want to take a good look at you all the time by finding some silly reasons.

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