Well, that’s fun….

@666Maggotz in a magical world I get that. But in a realistic world of tired parents we’ve all faked it to boost our spouse ego, to make sure they know we’re still attracted, because sometimes I care more about him getting a release than me. Selfless love doesn’t always mean you get your cake too. Adults know it has zero to do with feeling unfulfilled and more to do with a harmonious relationship.

That said….for those spare times I do slip in a fakie, menopause has thwarted me. We’ll add that to the list under night sweats, random rage and unexpected lustful fits. It’s lame. I’m either a fire to be put out or barely a spark🤦🏼‍♀️ ahhhh womaning is so fun!🥰

@CareBear420 I’m almost 30 and refuse to fake it. 🤷‍♀️ sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties but that’s just my take. I also won’t have sex if I don’t feel like it. I dealt with CSA starting when I was 6, so it’s my way of taking back control of my body, because for so long it felt like it didn’t belong to me. I won’t let anyone use it for their own pleasure anymore.

@666Maggotz point of view heard:) and understood:)

@CareBear420 Ok, Ok, I admit - I know ladies sometimes fake it, or aren't into it. But from the bottom of my heart, I can't help but appreciate if in a given moment... she's willing to just let me get what I want, even if she's not up for it right at the moment.

@666Maggotz You're wrong miss. And in a BIG way, not just a little wrong. Your body belongs to your spouse - clear as day. That doesn't mean you get to do whatever you want, but it also doesn't mean they can deny you every time they are not up to it. You shouldn't be abused - but that's no reason to respond the way you did.
If you don't understand this, you need a serious education. Preferably not from pop culture.

It's you "me-first" way of thinking that's so messed up our country.

@SW-User my body belongs only to me. You do not own other people. We don’t have slavery anymore, old man.

@666Maggotz ... look around. Look online, check youTube... if you insist on not being with someone, then you're going to end up alone, when it matters... as you get older.

That's just common sense... which you lack.

@666Maggotz That's not a good formula for a future marriage. And it works both ways. Again - you have a bad attitude that will cause problems. You - not him.

@SW-User I respect my bf and his body and he does mine. He respects my rights as a HUMAN BEING not a sexual object. If your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you, maybe figure out why instead of forcing yourself on her.

@666Maggotz Besides, men have authority in marriage. It is limited, and constituted, not domineering or all-encompassing, but it exists. If he doesn't know that - he'll fail you. If You - think that's some old tripe, then again, you have learned wrong.

Kinda sad actually.

@666Maggotz Well that's a good thing that you both respect each other.

@666Maggotz I don't force myself. That you would jump to some conclusion is not surprising, since it represents the limited understanding that exists so much today. Yes, we all have rights as human beings. Nothing I said denies that - though you seem to deny marital rights.
Again - you better get it before things turn sour.

@666Maggotz Your hatred becomes you. Don't worry - the truth will set you free, and there are plenty of women and men your age that understand.
... try to become one.