Well, that’s fun….
I think menopause has forfeited my right to fake it. Any other ladies care to weigh in?
36-40, F
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MorbidCynic · F
You shouldn’t have to fake it anyway.
CareBear420 · 36-40, F
@MorbidCynic in a magical world I get that. But in a realistic world of tired parents we’ve all faked it to boost our spouse ego, to make sure they know we’re still attracted, because sometimes I care more about him getting a release than me. Selfless love doesn’t always mean you get your cake too. Adults know it has zero to do with feeling unfulfilled and more to do with a harmonious relationship.
That said….for those spare times I do slip in a fakie, menopause has thwarted me. We’ll add that to the list under night sweats, random rage and unexpected lustful fits. It’s lame. I’m either a fire to be put out or barely a spark🤦🏼♀️ ahhhh womaning is so fun!🥰
That said….for those spare times I do slip in a fakie, menopause has thwarted me. We’ll add that to the list under night sweats, random rage and unexpected lustful fits. It’s lame. I’m either a fire to be put out or barely a spark🤦🏼♀️ ahhhh womaning is so fun!🥰
MorbidCynic · F
@CareBear420 I’m almost 30 and refuse to fake it. 🤷♀️ sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties but that’s just my take. I also won’t have sex if I don’t feel like it. I dealt with CSA starting when I was 6, so it’s my way of taking back control of my body, because for so long it felt like it didn’t belong to me. I won’t let anyone use it for their own pleasure anymore.
CareBear420 · 36-40, F
@MorbidCynic point of view heard:) and understood:)