I can't do this anymore

I'm so h0rny, and my bf has ZERO s3x drive!!!! I am trying to respect him and be celibate until he makes a move, but I also can't help feeling like I'm wasting my time. I'm 45. Once I hit menopause, all my libido could disappear and then I would have missed out on years of s3x.

WonderGirl · 41-45, F

@DearAmbellina2113 My husband and I used to drink a lot, but it had the opposite effect on him.

phoenixrising · M

Sounds like he needs to make some more time with you, it doesn't sound appealing at all. My condolences

RequiemAeternam · 36-40, M

@DearAmbellina2113 That might be the cause. I'm not sure though.

This might be a stupid question, but Is he aware of your needs?? There are multiple ways to enjoy it together even with him having his libido down.