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I met a very manipulative woman on here a while ago

She talks about killing herself so people worry, she blocks and unblocks you willy-nilly in an attempt to get what she wants, if you do not do exactly what she asks then she goes from asking for forgiveness for the last time she blocked you to calling you betrayer, hypocrite and disgusting, in 10 seconds flat.

The bad part about it is that she seems completely sane before you somehow make her feel like she's losing her grip on you. It only takes one small thing you won't do for her. Fascinating. 👀
This is the second time in two days that ive seen something like this .

There are some people seriously addicted to their dysfunction to the point they arent aware of the damage they are doing .

If you arent all 'for' them, then you are against them, in their eyes .

This 'online chat site' thing enables freedom of speech, but it also enables lack of self controll.

Its like anything that makes you feel better, it can b3come an addiction
...till it takes you over .

And i dont think people realise this .
Some people are sinking deeper into their addiction and jump on others when they dont get the 'hit' they want.

No 'someone' can fix you but yourself ,
Especially an online someone .

Victims become predators, its an endless cycle .😔
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@OogieBoogie Yeah I agree with you completely, it's very addictive once you find out what it is about your online activities it is that gives you your fix. Victims become predators... all the time.
@MartinTheFirst ive seen wjat it did to me .
It was like an evolution of one ego thing after another:
'Woe is me.
Anger,
Vanity,
Self righteousness....'
Blah blah blah...
...its embarrassing in a way .
But it also helped me see myself.

And what a weakness this place is.

Entertainment is one thing, but not if you sell your soul for it .
SW-User
@OogieBoogie so well said as usual
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
First time she blocks you, block her back. Problem solved. Who has energy for such games?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@CrazyMusicLover i do 🤭
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@MartinTheFirst The energy? 👀
Lostpoet · M
😡I'M NOT A GIRL!!!
Lostpoet · M
@Lostpoet The comment was a joke i know you weren't talking about me. I don't block anyone unless they post nudes on here and i accidentally click it.
Lostpoet · M
@Lostpoet 😡Stop giving me the shocked emoji!
SW-User
I know some narcissist too. Though she does not do I'll kill myself drama, she is quite good in projecting herself as a very caring and kind person. However, very different when something's not going in her way.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User even more hidden then🧐
Gusman · 61-69, M
There are a few manipulative females here. There are also plenty of drooling guys ready to acquiesce to their demands in the hope of.....?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Gusman oh she doesn't give out the nudes vibe at all, she just seems really friendly. Never be quick to trust someone who is overly friendly, I've met many like these...
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Ooh I have very little patience for people like that
Playing games with me is a good way to get blocked and stay blocked
MysterySci · 22-25, F
I almost wondered if you talked to my “ex” 😂 but he was a guy so nope. These people do be charismatic & charming at first
MysterySci · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst and you wont respond cuz you don’t have lips 🤣
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@MysterySci ......what?! 🤣
MysterySci · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst referring to the emoji lol 😆
That narrows the field down to about 500 women.
SW-User
I have to admit ...I do feel empathetic towards those with mental illness ...in the past I've been too available to talk too ....but I've learned to not be anymore ...
SW-User
@MysterySci True and that's why I choose to no longer engage with them
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User Me too, I was very kind to her but now when she blocked me for a second time I think it's appropriate to vent a bit and reflect on that experience
SW-User
@MartinTheFirst yes it is
That’s some seriously heavy mental health issues.

I have empathy for that person. They gonna ride the struggle bus for the rest of their lives.

Aaaaaand I hope to avoid them like the bubonic plague.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Teggy Honestly I think this site is slowly showing them their true nature, people don't get along with that kind of behaviour. They might snap out of it.
@MartinTheFirst I hope that does come as so for these users.

Unfortunately I think there’s a few that have just been this way for too long and can’t understand any other way.
Gotta be careful. With age comes wisdom. Trust me. 🙄 uh. Nevermind

But. Yes. Please be careful
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I have heard of several accounts doing this.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I try to save any significant effort for real life. 😂
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First letter please
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Who was this?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 think im gonna get banished so soon on arrival? think again 🙄
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@bleach i think you'll survive
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