Consider a situation where one partner sex drive is 14 times that of the other. Is their relationship destined to doom,

Have you been looking into my past? You have said a word. Whew! They usually tried to shame me for it unfortunately and it never worked out no matter how much I tried to communicate or how up front I was about it from the start.

Depends on the openness of the lower sex drive. Yet I suspect neither could find others with similar drives.

The difference is that great.

I see you have met my spouse.....