@OutoftheGloom oh lol

@Mrnotsonew I would never have surgery

@OutoftheGloom don’t blame you at all.

@DHggmu well yes but not if I'm no longer attractive to guys, that matters too but I think I need to go with what's healthy.

@OutoftheGloom I didn’t want to assume you were thinking how you look to others, but in that case, speaking as a man.. we’re men. A lot of us like women of all shapes and sizes, that includes boobs, there’s always going to be men who find you attractive regardless.

@DHggmu Thanks, I know this really 😊

@rebelsoul shame nobody can massage me. I can't afford to pay a professional unfortunately. I thought maybe swimming would be good.

@romell well... I hope it will come in as later as possible... right now... it works well! 😇

@fenomen02 can't even say amen some may translate that as ahh men n think you are gay

@romell I am not but... I couldn't care less of what other people thinks 😇

@Softy1 that's true. They are big and kind of droopy though, I'm widowed and starting to think about what happens when it comes to sex with someone other than my husband. It's pretty scary. I was looking at myself the other day and just thought, hell that needs some maintenance lol.

@OutoftheGloom yes I was married for twenty five years and the last ten years was sexless and we been separated and divorced for about 8 or so years so I have been sexless for about 18 years now and it’s scary for me to think about having sex again that fear has kept me sexless lol. I know your situation is different.

@Softy1 it will probably just work itself out when the time comes. We can probably worry for no reason.

@MrVintage71 thanks xx

@Freetime that is true xx