I hate cold snaps during New England summers

Freak cold snaps in the summer drive me nuts. That also means I have to pull out my winter attire again in July. Only 70 degrees in the forecast on Friday and only like 75-76 degrees Thursday.. Whatever 72-74 degrees on Friday . Why can’t it just stay at least around ninety degrees all summer long consistently at a minimum? This is going to make packing a pain. I have to stay three nights at my aunts and uncles house because my parents don’t feel comfortable leaving me on my own at our house. I would rather stay at my house because I have all my stuff here. One I don’t have practice cooking for myself. Two I have no car to get around and buy groceries if needed. My parents didn’t feel comfortable with me behind the wheel of a car and sold my car to my aunt for my cousin Donovan. We don’t have endless bus and train service here so I need to rely on rides to get around. It’s a major inconvenience. They also worry if a storm comes and the power goes out what will I do? I don’t know how to work the back up generator. I hate how I let myself become so dependent on my family. I also hate packing into one suitcase when I need at least two to carry everything. For someone who wants to travel , I don’t know how to pack light. But I would rather travel with everything with me in an RV motorhome than have to pack a suitcase. I find the process of going through an airport security and TSA a major nuisance. I wear layers of clothes to keep warm so that’s another reason why packing is a pain because I wear a lot. I hate the weather up here. One day it was like 100 ( scorching hot) and a couple of days later it went back to between 70-76. What the actual fuck? And several years ago I was home by myself while my parents went on vacation. Couple of hours away for two to three days. There was food left over and they checked in on me twice a day and I had grandparents nearby who could check on me. I didn’t want to go on family vacations anymore because they would often tell me what I could and couldn’t pack in my suitcases of at least tried to. I also didn’t like being tied at the hip. It wasn’t until I was 21 where my family. Let me explore downtown Virginia Beach. By myself with a motel room card while they were at the beach. My most recent trip out of state was to Vermont forcibly with my family because the house was getting exterminated out for termites.that was maybe four years ago I stayed inside most of the days because Vermont was unusually cold and I didn’t pack warm enough and didn’t go out with my family to eat. I hate it when the weather doesn’t cooperate and it’s unusually chilly/cold during the summer. I do not like New England summers because they are inconsistent after a certain point in the year I just like it to be hot everyday. I get anxiety on what to pack and I have to take extra bags to my aunts and uncles house because not everything I want to pack will fit in one suitcase. Sometimes I think maybe I’m not meant to be an avid traveler. At least not without an rv and all my stuff with me. I get anxiety about not being warmly dressed enough when it’s nippy out. And anything below 75 is nippy. I just wish my parents let me stay by myself at the house for a couple of days and my relatives could come by everyday and check on me. I wear two robes in the house with the ac on over my pajamas. Under 75 degrees, I wear thermals, sweaters, winter coats, corduroys, fuzzy thick socks, Ugg boots, vests and fleeces under my. Jackets, scarves, hats, and gloves/handwarmers( no gloves or handwarmers in the summer). The temperature could do up or down during the summer and that’s why it’s so hard to predict what to wear. It makes me very angry. I would rather be home with all my warm attire on the afternoons of those days instead of having to guess. Why can’t it be in the 90s everyday without fail? Or 100 like we got one day? At minimum it should always be on the upper 80s. And the nights should be no less than 75-80 a real real summer. I have had days that were supposed to be 72-74 according to one weather station and then 82-83 according to another weather station or 76-77. One thing I hate is inconsistency with the weather and climate and temperatures. Either make it a real summer or give me the fall and spring weather again where it was tolerably cold but at least I knew how to dress for the weather. And 70 was 70 degrees moderately cold. Stupid bipolar weather…… I will just pack a mixture of things including my winter attire to keep warm transitional and winter attire. I don’t wear summer attire until it’s like 90 degrees outside. Now that’s hot.