A thousand people can do you wrong and itll still be your fault your feelings are hurt

Depends on conext. What I will say is you are never at faulr for feeling hurt. You are at fault for not saying anything to the abuser tho. At least once, then fighting back with a stratrgy from there.

It's a shame but that's the way it is. It's basicly the reason you have to keep getting stronger, smarter and more well managed to protect against abusers.