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Would you ever?

I am not in this situation or interested in this situation. This is purely hypothetical.

Imagine that you have been married for about 10-15 yrs, and though you love and care for your spouse, you also miss the excitement and freedom of meeting someone new and discovering your connection with them.

So you open up to your spouse about this, and they admit they have been feeling much the same way. They enjoy you and the life you have built together, but they too are missing the excitement of meeting new partners.

So you both mutually decide to reserve a once-a-year vacation that each of you will take separately, and on these separate vacations, you each are allowed to meet and be physically intimate with ONE other person. But the catch is that after your tryst, you will never be allowed to see or contact that person again.

After your adventurous vacation, you both return home to one another and do not discuss anything you did on your separate vacations.

Would you ever partake in this willingly?
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30 Best Comment
Nope 馃槀 because what if she gets laid & I get rejected out there? 馃槶 If I've been married 10-15 years I assume I'd have absolutely no game anymore lol. I ALREADY don't have game
@ChiefWalksWith40oz I still don鈥檛 think you鈥檇 be rejected.
Just saying.
@bijouxbroussard aw 馃ズ how sweet. Thank you

Icedsky46-50, M
Sounds like a prepared disaster
CarolinaCrushDaddy51-55, M
I got a better idea........ i'll just dump em, go back to bein single, and then go back to playin the field. LOL
LunarOrbit56-60, M
gamingnerd26-30, M
i'm not to sure to be honest one hand it sounds amazing but on the other it sounds like a bad idea.

in a fight between two married people anything will come out soon enough even if you agreed to keep it quiet.
DearAmbellina211341-45, F
@gamingnerd you definitely have a point.
gamingnerd26-30, M

Interesting that you can do just that with the person you are with.... people don't see the obvious... they just figure it's easier to play around with others.

Let's see some take a challenge to have an adventurous vacation with the one they are with...
SlaveEt31-35, F
Nah, looking for a long term partner we can all build relationships with is our preferred method. I will admit it is hard to find someone interested in joining a triad though馃馃し鈥嶁檧锔
I wouldn't unless I really hated and didn't care about who I was with which in that case I would divorce them first.
Unlikely. I'd probably be more inclined to be present for threesomes or foursomes.
CopperFox42036-40, F
I don鈥檛 think so, but I don鈥檛 know. I鈥檝e never been with someone that long.
Wasn't there a movie along similar lines....

I believe the title was:

Same time, next year
Never. That is NOT a relationship and there is no honor in that.
No never, what鈥檚 the point of staying married.
meggie36-40, F
No and if they suggested it I would be very hurt
WaryWitchWandering31-35, F
No. Someone will get hurt for sure
uncalled451-55, M
Wow. Quite a concept. No, I don't think I could do that. Either open the marriage up or don't. Even still, it's a dangerous dynamic--what if your spouse ends up falling for that other person?
Stereoguy56-60, M
Never in a million years! Adultery is adultery. If you want to play around just get a divorce. 馃槨

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