I’ve lost two connections in two days’ time.

[paragraph deleted because an aging ego was hurt in the making of this post and he can only repair it by calling me a liar]

One was genuine, but the timing is just not there. But it proves one thing. I’m tired of trying…of hoping when it’s proven to just produce the same script in every chapter consisting of the same characters with different names.

I get it, Universe. I get it. I have to do something different or the same results will continue to appear. Consider me reborn in the wisdom it’s taken far too long to gain.

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

Being a kind hearted person will make you strong AF. It's often disappointing, but just take a moment to look at yourself. At the beautiful person you are inside and out, how you take care of yourself, your loved ones and how you extend all that beauty to even us internet weirdos. Losing people hurts, but I can assure you, you are not a liar and you deserve quality friendships.

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

@ScreamingFox You’re beautiful, lady. You know that?

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@PerfectionOfTheHeart on the down low, yeah, I think you have to be it to see it in others.

onrealityofdreams · M

I won't be the only one who says this. You're a wonderful person who doesn't need to bend or change for anyone. You only need to be who you are. Anyone who can't accept that is someone you don't need to be around.

Keeper · M

Try not to sweat it (I know, easier said than done)

I went through the same recently with a couple folks - because of one bad apple on here.

But at the end of the day, be your authentic self. Plenty of peeps appreciate that about you 🫡

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

@Keeper I’m already over it 💪🏻

Bexsy

Opening up to someone knowing it could hurt, is a strength. Caring and loving is also.
Calling you a liar is just a weakness because they have nothing left to throw at you, like a 2 year old having a tantrum.

Your strength I've always admired. You have a good heart. Don’t let aholes ruin it

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

@Bexsy It’s a level of strength I don’t think many acknowledge.

I allowed myself to feel what needed to be felt from his many hateful words, but those few minutes of my life are all he’ll ever get from me again. I have no space for the actions of someone who plays the victim when they can’t be the hero.