What's more important: LOYALTY or HONESTY?

it depends on where your relationship is and how long you've been together...those who say "honesty" are full of shit...yes, in a perfect world, it would be nice to be 100% honest, but the truth is, we're human and we're NOT perfect..in reality, deep down, none of us want to hear "honesty" from another..if we did, we wouldn't get hurt, mad, or frustrated the times when our SO is honest, so, over time, in order for our SO to not damage us, we've conditioned them to not be 100% honest from our reactions to their previous "honesty"..so in the end, loyalty wins out..and honesty is put on the back burner, or taken off the stove all together, because we love our SO and being there for them is the most important thing...but you young ones won't understand this...you haven't experience enough "life" yet, so you live in a fantasy world..but eventually you will come to realize this and then "settle" for loyalty over honesty...until then, keep lying to yourself..because you can't even be honest with yourself, so don't expect your SO to be honest either....