Half decent sex, someone to be "weak" to who won't hold it against us when we get "strong" again. who we can do the same for. somebody who makes us WANT to give up everything for but doesn't really require us to. Someone who not only listens to us speak but HEARS some of it too.Someone we can be ourself with. etc. oh. and some of them want babies and i just want boxed wine and that other shit.