I want to know

Maybe

@ChocolateSauce: just do your research what is best for her. Be informed.

@feathers11: Will do

Thank you for the information. I do have a therapist and I have had her for about 2 or more years now. She doesn't yet know about his passing but she will know during our next therapy session.

I took care of him. In and out of the hospital too many times over the past 2 years. He went through chemo, radiation and the side effects. I did everything for him. Anyone who read this and has gone through it don't ask questions like that.

@ChocolateSauce: 🤔 I'm asking because you were vague. I'm not being judgemental or harsh, it was only a question.
What confused me is that you started your questions asking "How to deal with my mentally ill mother " and ended your comment with " I will do the same thing for her that I am doing for my dad." Which led me to wonder, what you did for your dad. And really, I'm just curious as to what you are planning to for her that is teh same as your dad.

Lord have mercy!