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PhoenixPhail · M
I'm a strong INFJ, also an HSP. Hope you're doing well today.
distractedreamer87 · 36-40, F
Hello.. to be honest I'm feeling a bit awkward replying to people right know.. and hoping i don't say anything that appears to be foolish or boring... lol :p
distractedreamer87 · 36-40, F
But beside of that.. I'm good my brain is still the same weird, chaotic mess ;-)
PhoenixPhail · M
@distractedreamer87: No worries. I understand completely. You won't say anything foolish or boring. I have no judgement or criticism about anything you say or do. You're kindly invited to check it out.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you.
distractedreamer87 · 36-40, F
thanks :)
PhoenixPhail · M
@distractedreamer87: I think your brain is ordered in a way it needs to be to accommodate whatever it's up against. There's nothing wrong, no matter how it feels.
distractedreamer87 · 36-40, F
@sophrai: yeah, I just tend to feel overwhelmed pretty easily...and well.. "chaos" what's in my head doesnt translate always soo smooth on the paper on screen ... ;)
PhoenixPhail · M
@distractedreamer87: I totally get it. I'll handle your "chaos" with kid gloves. Do you also sometimes get claustrophobic? I do on occasion. And I can get overwhelmed in crowds.
distractedreamer87 · 36-40, F
Yup I have anxiety soo I'll avoid crowded places. In friendships I like one on one contacts or a small group only :)
PhoenixPhail · M
@distractedreamer87: That's me, too. I recently went to a Meetup group called Death Café. Very interesting crowd and good conversation, just a lot of people, about 16 as I recall. As I started feeling closed in, I had to focus on the person who was speaking, and put the others out of my mind as best I could. When the meeting was over, I needed to be alone and recharge. I love people, and being with them, but any more than about half a dozen at a time, is sometimes challenging.