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On this site do you prefer private message chats or interacting through the various public questions

I like private messages only from people I've interacted with over time. They generally feel like interviews/interrogations when they come from people who randomly select me
Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M
I'm a very private person in general, I tend to believe that people will browse an individuals responses, and just as in any interview, judge an individual based upon their weakest impression. I don't tend to like being interviewed, so I would much prefer getting to know someone personally, than on a public review board.

That being said, I think we're all guilty of, at the very least, contemplating something that could bite us in the ass at a later date, so I try very hard not to judge anyone at face value, and will usually respond to public questions and stories in a light and friendly manner.
Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M
@Pinkrainbowkisses: I'm simply here to make friends and conversation, about anything really.
SW-User
you mean he's just here for sex chats.. normal chats you wont get judged at all.
Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M
@theowl: except you seem to be missing the point, and reinforcing mine. It would be all too easy to assume that I'm here to fuck, given my avatar and some of my responses, that is to say, if you assume, however logically, that I'm on this site solely to get some action, you would be gravely incorrect, however, if you are assuming, not based on my post history as a whole, but by my least appropriate posts, that would be a perfectly logical assumption to make. However, given that PMs are private, the world is left to judge based off of assumption, and miss out on perfectly friendly and polite interaction; or take my statement that I am happy to speak to anyone about anything at face value. Either way, that is only up to individual to decide whether or not sparking an interaction is in there best interests.
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OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
either are good, don't get many msgs and I'm at work so sometimes have to go w/ out warning.
MikefromEP · 51-55, M
Sort of like people you deal with face to face and share subtle moments that become larger
SW-User
either or.. but i mostly stay in the realm of Q and A. i only talk to a couple of people through private message.
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SW-User
Either, but I always like getting private messages
silkandlace · 46-50, M
Yay
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
I love to message. Would love to find out more about you.
[c=#BF0080]Interacting on the forums.[/c]
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
PM is my preferred way to chat.
JP1119 · 36-40, M
I like private message chats.
LynnSW68 · 51-55, F
I was introduced to the site by a personal friend and we tend to chat in private here sometimes, but with others I have met I also prefer private chatting generally.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Both but I guess I'm Guilty as for interviewing people
silkandlace · 46-50, M
I prefer pvt messages.....
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Pms are much better
silkandlace · 46-50, M
I prefer pvt

 
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