What's a good strategy for dealing with people who have double standards about mistakes and grudges?

Why is it common for a wife/husband to talk about wanting a bigger house? Next, they normally want a divorce?
What are the humanitarian arguments for allowing Palestinians to have freedom and return to their homeland?
Has the increased presence of female security personnel on Indian trains made you feel safer during overnight journeys?
Isn’t it true that police inference causes more problems than the original problem?
Why do many people feel anxious about America’s future if the basic necessities like food and water are plentiful?