What are the benefits of going on a coffee date compared to a dinner date when you're getting to know someone?

What are some strategies for dealing with rejection over superficial reasons in the dating scene?
How do Trump's supporters justify his focus on his election victory while critics see it as a distraction?
My ex best friend broke up with me and things ended up tense, its been nearly two months and they ask about schoolwork. I'm really confused as to why they would do that. Am I being used?