What's the strangest thing a neighbour has ever borrowed from you and never returned?

Can people who defend evil actions genuinely change their perspectives, or is their mindset too deeply ingrained?
How can someone be consistent and committed to personal growth in the midst of responsibilities?
Why do some individuals twist facts to justify evil deeds? What's going on in their minds that makes it seem acceptable?
Do you think it is easier to bond with your teammates when you are all working hard and sweating together?