What are some effective ways to focus on my own healing and soul work while waiting for my twin flame?

Does a major physical transformation in one spouse require the other to completely reinvent their role in the relationship?
What specific signs or placements should I look for in my horoscope to see if I have the Venus-Jupiter trine or opposition that might make me wealthy?
How do you laugh off a cringe-worthy mistake, like almost taking the wrong child home by accident?