Is it possible that prioritizing kindness over honesty can lead to more harm than good in the long run?

Is the idea of a "predatory gaze" something experts in psychology agree with, or is it more of an anecdotal observation?
How can accepting your current state as a starting point lead to personal growth?
Why might some people find the idea of being stalked in the woods more thrilling than terrifying, and how do they prepare for it?