Does the desire to fit in make people ignore their own survival instincts?

How do you protect your own mental health when you are frequently the target of anger from people who refuse to accept your technical explanations?
Why do some long-term relationships end abruptly despite having shared years and assets, and how do you find closure?
When you draw everyday, do you consciously get better at it over time and so have to pay attention to what you're drawing or do you just unconsciously get able to draw better?