How do thoughts and desires about improving the world influence the people around us, even if we don't see immediate changes?

What are the long-term effects of being forced to fend for yourself as a young adult, especially when you come from a middle-class background? How can this experience shape your view on family and safety?
What misconceptions about grief might prevent someone from discovering peace during their mourning process?
Have you ever thought your life was good, but then you suddenly realize you might being lying to yourself?