Does true self-acceptance require loving your body exactly as it is, or can it include the freedom to change it through surgery?

Why do logical and smart people struggle to accept the end of a relationship, even when it's obvious to others?
How did Dolly Parton's statement on Black Lives Matter impact her fans and the public's perception of her?
What are some subtle signs that tell you someone isn't just a friendly acquaintance, but someone you can actually count on in a crisis?