How did you cope with the pressure and expectations during your drop year, and what kept you motivated through tough times?

Why do people sometimes understand what needs to change in their life, but wait for a crisis before they finally act?
If a manager tries to break your resolve by making you choose between your employment and your principles, what would you do?
Why is it important to mind my own business when it comes to coworkers' use of sick leave?
Why can too much choice make parents less satisfied with what they finally buy?