What would you do if you woke up and when you tilted your head, you saw Donald Trump slept in the same bed as you?

Has anyone ever dated a girl and then not felt like she is living a double life? I’ve been with her here for 4 years and it’s always the same pattern. About every 3 weeks she makes me leave for some made up reason.
Is it appropriate for a wife to disclose her past relationships to her husband? Does the level of love in those relationships before marriage affect the decision to share this information?