Isn't it convenient for you that whatever happens to others is personal responsibility, but when you get shot it's not your fault?

What are some inspiring stories of people who defied the odds after receiving a terminal diagnosis?
Why do some people successfully hide their true character for so many years in a relationship before an affair surfaces?
Why might some financially independent women prefer marrying someone with a higher salary despite their own financial independence?
Why are some actors able to evoke strong emotions from the audience while others fall flat? What elements contribute to this ability?