Why might some cultures value community and family connections more strongly than others as people age?

Why do I feel okay in seeing celebrities suffer, and why do I feel all of them are enemies of society?
Does living near the water make it easier for you to stay in alignment with your work?
Is it possible to reverse a tendency towards selfishness in older age, and what role can spirituality play in this process?
If two people truly love each other, but one is afraid to love because of their past, how long should the other person wait before realizing they may never be ready?