Do you feel like you live up to your own values?

Are you living as your ideal self?

I’ve admired nearly anyone who is consistent, hard working, and able to achieve most of the goals they set out to do. People who are always trying to improve themselves and do better? I envy you.

I value those same qualities, but don’t always see them in myself. I want to become someone that I can admire, so I’m trying to change.

What about you guys?

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

I do my best.

EldritchFox · 41-45, F

I am working on myself too. I do live up to my values in most ways, but I'm not active enough with healing because I don't have time for myself. So I'm kinda bitter. I'm working my way through. I do better work in isolation. I believe I'll get there.

Sorceress · 22-25, F

@EldritchFox I hear you about not having time! Sometimes living on autopilot is all you can do for a while. But it’s survival and it counts

I hope you have more opportunities to slow down and focus on your needs in the future 🫂

BiasForAction · M

The person I am is ever -evolving to I hope a better person—one who is more virtuous and more self reliant. I’ll never achieve perfection but I might achieve authenticity and maybe self realization

Reject · 31-35, M

I saw your results! What do you mean you’re not that person?

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Reject · 31-35, M

@Sorceress We all mess up. Every single one of us. The big difference here is some people are good like you and know they were wrong. Others don’t feel that way. They think they were right and they blame the world instead. You’re not like that. So I think you’re a better person than you might realize.

I’m not sure I want to be anything? I’m pretty happy just loving life! 😋

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Reject · 31-35, M

@Sorceress Anytime! ♥

Yes! I work to always be present! I mean I do have future goals, but let’s just say I walk for the sake of walking. It’s not important to me if I get there or not. I rarely post! It’s like… a couple times a month if even that. Very few understand me, but that’s okay. I’m glad someone enjoyed them!

FreestyleArt · 36-40, M

I try, but I don't see this world valuable. It's dead to me.

calicuz · 56-60, M

I fail on one front, and I continue to work on myself.

GoFish · 41-45, F

i'm far from where i'd like to be in terms of ideals

hunkalove · 70-79, M

I suffer from low self-esteem. I deserve a crapola bottom feeder website like this. If I had my choice I wouldn't go anywhere near me.

Sorceress · 22-25, F

@hunkalove Please don’t say that about yourself, you don’t deserve to be treated poorly. Whoever told you that you deserve to be treated “less than humanely” was going through their own problems and should not be listened to. But I understand that low self esteem doesn’t go away overnight :(

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