What motivates people to leave someone they care about in a state of neglect instead of offering occasional support?

A favorite chair, a quiet corner, or a familiar window view can make a home feel more comfortable without being expensive. Why do small personal spaces matter so much to people?
Why do some women become more attractive as they get older, while others seem to lose confidence? What makes the difference?
How can housewives turn their skills into a side income without overwhelming their daily routines?