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Convivial · 26-30, F
Try to do both... You don't want to be struggling when you're older
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Convivial We have the details.
Convivial · 26-30, F
@emiliya more than I have....
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Convivial Why don't you have the details?

ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Unfortunately there isn't really a clear answer here. I didn't really accomplish either. I was shy and exclusive and instead of saving I was helping support family and friends. I think I'm at a point where I wish I would have had more financially discipline then though I wouldn't have wanted to just abandon people.

I wish I had done more of both. But I'm also wishing I could get out and live more now. The desire to do so didn't fade with age. Had I been more financially disciplined I'd probably be able to do a lot more now
Softy1 · M
I didn’t vote cause I believe you should do both
Save save ! It’s in your later years you will be thankful that you have it to enjoy.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
It's better to go live now. I waited until my late 30's and now I'm super behind. I wish I had not been so responsible early on because it didn't do me any good anyway. Enjoy. Live. Experience. There's always ways to make it.

Life is for living, not just preparing to die.
faery · F
Split the difference and save a percentage. You need to do both
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I’m actively going through a 1/3 life crisis
So I’m squarely in the live your life while you’re young mindset
chrisCA · M
There is no reason you cannot do both. Do something so you are not always broke
I'm 50 and wish I'd invested sooner so I could work when I want doing things I want to rather than worrying about a paycheck
1490wayb · 56-60, M
have a little fun and be sure to save\invest 1-2 paychecks each year.
texasgamblerguy · 46-50, M
I was broke ass till my parents inherited money when I turned 28. I went out 3-5 nights a week, but on a broke ass budget. I would literally make 400-500 a week and spend about 100 going out. Back then you could have plenty of fun on .89 gas and 2.50 drinks. The 90s were more wild time for clubbing into the early 2000s.
meggie · F
You could do a working holuday. Travel to somewhere where you are allowed to work. You are earning and seeing new places at the same time.
texasgamblerguy · 46-50, M
That is a great question. I did lots of the fun and less of the saving. I would stay debt free, buy a home if you're inclined. Try to find a side hustle. Do make sure to party it up some though;) Your 20s are your best decade of life often times.
Nightwings · F
I think you should get out there and live a little since you spent your early 20s reclusive, but really there's no wrong way to live your life as long as you're doing something that makes you happy. ^^
I personally want to have experiences and live my life while I still am able to
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Do whatever you feel most comfortable with. You can travel and experience new things without breaking the bank.
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Mudkip This lady can't. She said, "even if you're a bit broke."

Well, that means she is broke.
Sorceress · 22-25, F
@emiliya Four years of college will do that to you, yes :^)
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Sorceress Four years of what? Are you telling me you went to college to be broke?
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Why can you not do both???

Within reason, you should be able to both put aside cash for later in life as well as saving up to get out there and experience things. It might mean that it takes that bit longer between experiences, but it gives you time to really plan and anticipate whatever you're going to do.
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
If I could go back and give my younger self some advice, it would be to spend more time on hobbies that don't cost a fortune...🤔
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Plan for tomorrow, but live today.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
It's very individual. I'd say if you are overall healthy, I mean physically and mentally, it's better to get out there and experience the life. Otherwise take it in a slower lane, try to fix what you can first. Small, safer adventures, etc.
Also depends if you have support in your family so you'd have someone to lean on in case things go wrong.
Reject · 31-35, M
Can’t you do both in moderation? I wouldn’t advise either in extremes.
Sorceress · 22-25, F
@Reject Thank you! I really appreciate your input and will be mulling over it *hugs*
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Sorceress Psychology? What do you mean at the moment?
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Sorceress Why does a nurse need an assistant? They are the assistant.

But I don't want any damned assistant.
lovingdead · 36-40, M
it depends on what you want for a future.

(if you have no set destination, then it doesn't matter what direction you choose to wander)
StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M
do whatever you want without caring what society thinks
StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M
@emiliya have you tried looking it up?
emiliya · 26-30, F
@StygianKohlrabi You would be surprised by what they call psychopath nowadays. Hell, they don't even bother calling you sociopath.
StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M
@emiliya I don't identify as either

 
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