Why might someone feel more grateful for the therapy relationship as a whole rather than specific actions by their therapist?

Why is Nigel Farage running against a guy with a bucket on his head in the Clacton by-election, and what's at stake for him?
How can gratitude towards the universe or fate play a role in how you perceive your therapy journey?
Do beauty pageants provide a more accurate assessment of a person's social standing than the feedback they get from friends?