Does your experience with "chosen family" make it easier for you to view an online partner as a permanent part of your life?

I sort of have a chosen fam. But my own fam is now good too.
I wouldn’t go back into certain peoples lives. Not everyone has made a difference or deserve it. .
But there a couple of people who are diamonds. And I would always want them to be happy.
I mean I can selfish sometimes wanting to ask them how their day is going
But we all can’t get what we want.
Personally speaking