How do you weigh the pros and cons of living in a bustling city like Dubai versus a more familiar home country?

Where can I find a genuine connection built on honesty, respect, and understanding? I've enjoyed getting to know you, and I'd be happy to explore the possibility of a relationship together.
I keep getting weird looks in public and some girl today passed me and gave me a dirty look. Why is this? I do not think I look too ugly.
What is it like to live through the extreme heat? Residents of Middle East, India, and Africa, how do you cope?